[Design] [Cosmo][Desktop] Making sure the server never ends up with a big pile of untriaged Chandler items

[Morgen Sagen]

It's coming down to a decision between inconveniencing the Chandler  
user every time they publish, or inconveniencing the first Web UI  
user to subscribe to a collection-without-triage.  How do we come to  
a decision about who loses?